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Encouragement From an Old Friend

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Actual Photo of Me and Jess Meeting

Jess and I were roommates in college. Bible college, that is. Realm of mandatory chapel services, curfews, and dress codes. Don’t get me wrong, I loved Bible college, for both the new-start-after-high-school experience, and the Bible savvy I gained. But back then “witnessing” meant winning arguments and showing off our Bible prowess.

Oh my, I just did the math, and it was 30+ years ago! We have both mellowed since then. But he has retained his zealousness, in a good way. (Oops, should I have used the word zeal there? Zealousness sounds more impressive, doesn’t it?) I’m trying to do the same.

Jess came for a visit, and he and I were talking about this crazy ministry of reaching out to Jehovah’s Witnesses that God has placed in my path. He’s very supportive of the whole thing, and wants to see it reach its full potential. So we began brainstorming (okay, mostly he did the brainstorming) about what some next steps ought to be.

For one thing, he has invited me to speak to a church group he’s involved with. Cool! I plan on taking him up on that.

Secondly, he thought I should develop a curriculum to be used by others. I’m working on that.

Third, he thought it would be good if I involved others in the ministry. I’d like to, and have been thinking the same, but have been rather stymied as to how to make that happen. His (good) suggestion was to develop mentoring with individuals, whether in person or online. Hmm. Boy, that would be great! Jess has a lot of experience with online video conferencing stuff through his work, so he may be my go-to guy for ongoing advice in developing that. I would need to get some equipment for that, including a descent video cam. (Tell me in the comments whether you would want to learn from me either in person or online. We could get started by phone if we can’t meet in person.)

Finally, he came up with the idea of me preparing some training role-play videos, where I and others act out how to talk with Jehovah’s Witnesses. Sound familiar? Yes, it would be similar to the role-playing that the JW’s do in their “theocratic ministry school.” Sounds fun, yes? I’ll be looking for fellow actors for that, and former JW’s would be ideal, since they would have the best insight into the mindset of an active JW, and would be the best candidates to play that role.

Let me know what you think about all this. Brainstorm with us! Meanwhile, I will be seeking guidance from Jehovah’s Holy Spirit. May the Lord speak to you as well, no matter what the issue is you’re facing.


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Questioning My Motives

After the kingdom hall talks, I approached one of the speakers to ask a question about the scripture he lectured on. The passage was Galatians 4, which he gave as an example of a legitimate usage of type and anti-type in biblical interpretation. I agree with him (and with the Watchtower teaching he was parroting), because the typology of the passage is clearly spelled out in the very passage. Paul, the author, explains that Hagar symbolizes the Old Covenant, and Sarah symbolizes the New Covenant.

My question was about verse 27, where it says that the barren woman (Sarah) would rejoice, because “more are the children of the desolate woman than of her who has a husband.” My question would have been “Since this verse indicates that there would be more believers in the New Covenant than in the Old Covenant, doesn’t that indicate that there are more than just 144,000 in the New Covenant?”

I say that my question “would have been,” because I didn’t get a chance to ask it of the speaker. One of the elders (in past posts I called him Carl, see Donkey Incident), ushered me away from the speaker, and took me over to my other friend Aaron. Then he left us. I told the perplexed Aaron, “Carl brought me over to you, but I don’t know why.” Then Carl came back. (I assume he had gone back to Mr. Speaker to warn him of my ways.) I was then able to ask the question of Carl and Aaron.

Trouble was, Carl kept interrupting and wouldn’t even listen to the question. And he questioned my motives, saying things like, “It sounds like you already have your opinion about the matter,” and “What is your purpose in asking the question?” It was annoying, but I kept my cool, giving him my usual explanations when confronted this way, namely:

I’m seeking the truth.

I have been brought up in a different system, for a long time, and I have questions about your belief system.

I want to understand clearly what Watchtower teaches.

I’m like the little kid in the “Bible Teach” book, asking questions repeatedly until they receive a satisfactory answer.

These answers are all truthful. But obviously it’s not the full truth. I am trying to influence the ones I’m questioning.

So here’s the tough part. Carl’s challenges made me think deeply about my motives, even while I was talking with him and Aaron. Now, I know I’m not the demon Carl imagines me to be in his mind. He thinks I’m merely sowing seeds of doubt, leading people away from “the truth” and toward paganism, atheism, sex, drugs, and rock and roll. Not so, Carl. Yes, I’m sowing seeds of doubt, and I want to lead people away from the Watchtower, but more than that, I want to lead people toward Jesus and The Truth of scripture. But Carl’s probing made me question my motives in my own mind.

Do I take pleasure in stumping my JW friends?

Am I addicted to the adrenaline rush that I get when I’m challenging my JW friends?

Am I in this for the fun of being a “secret agent” for Jesus?

Does outsmarting my JW friends make me feel proud and smug, and intellectually superior to them?

And finally: Is it right for me to be secretive about my agenda with my JW friends?

I have to admit that sometimes the first four are true. I am praying that Jehovah will work those flaws out of me.

That last question, though; I don’t yet know what to think about that. Do I need a more up front and honest approach? If I did that, would they not talk or listen to me at all?

Am I just overthinking all of this? Perhaps. But, I will continue to take this to the Lord. He’s having me think about this for a reason. (Unless it’s the enemy trying to attack me with doubts, but I don’t think so. There’s no condemnation attached to it.)

I do know for certain that I need to change my strategy with that particular congregation from this time forward. No more questioning of congregation members. I think I just need to be a friend to the people, and let them (hopefully) sense the presence of the Holy Spirit in me, and see what the Lord does with that. I will let you know what comes of it.

If you have experience or insight into these issues, please feel free to comment. Thank you!

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